Family

So, this christmas brought our family together right? ...well...kinda...

Everything was fine up until tonight, where we had our "christmas" with my mom...my sister, who hates my mom, was already being uptight and nonwilling.....

but last night, my step grandma, grandma fran, called my sister out (in private conversation) about being a instigator and getting my family to look down on me and look up on her.

over the past few holidays, she has told my grandparents and extended family that i: have a tattoo, smoke and am a nude model.

As devoted catholics they are...they of course chewed me out until i felt like a piece of shit....while my sister sat back and watched me feel horrible with a smirk on her face....

Why? why would she do this?

I feel like its because she realizes that i am truely able to succeed  her in many ways and she feels like that she needs to point out my "flaws"....

Grandma Fran said "you know...my parents would have hit me if i ever ratted on my siblings like that"....that really hit home for me...i realized that i truely cant trust the one i should be able to trust most. That hurts.

I realize that we are two different people with two different mind sets and philosophies...but the sibling bond has such strength that should never be broken for personal gain.

This hurts. She is one of the only people that i was able to vent to thinking of total secrecy....but now, i know that i am unable to do so.

it sucks. a lot. but such is life. you learn what works and what doesnt...and clearly this doesnt work...and i shall move on, persevere and conquer from here forth.... and if she wishes to burn this bridge, i'll gladly hold the torch to my end as she does to hers....

It's my life right?

i dont get it... why are employers allowed to judge you on what you put on fbook and twitter?

Facebook and Twitter are social media that allows you to express your true self. I do not foresee why it is allowed for employers to look at these and judge your work ethic on your personal life.

If you look at my facebook, you can see that I am in college, I enjoy drinking, parties and speaking my mind...
And if you look at my twitter, you will see most of my uncensored thoughts about random things....

Why should I be punished for being myself? Also, everyone has two different personas, a work and a personal life.

My work ethic is superb. I am hard working and loyal and blahblahblah
whereas my personal life is PERSONAL.

i just dont think its appropriate to judge someone farther than a resume and a interview...